Keynote Speaker on Stress, Resilience & Burnout for Our Modern World

From the Frontline to the Boardroom:
Resilience that Actually Sticks.

Because “Signposting to an Employee Assistance Programme” isn’t a Burnout Strategy.

The Caveman Principles

The Original talk, based on Carl’s book. It covers understanding stress, managing personalities and creating personal change.

CNW – Burnout Strategy

The Capacity, Need, Want talk helps employees understand burnout and delivers a framework and tools for them to use.

SLAP Technique

This one is really for the managers, helping them manage someone back into the workplace. HR policy may not be a good People Policy.



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HR and People Managers: I know your inbox is screaming.

You’re balancing retention targets, hybrid culture, and a team that is—to put it bluntly—exhausted. You don’t need another “wellness Wednesday” fruit bowl. You need a way to stop your best people from hitting a wall before they hand in their notice.

I get it. Before I was a speaker, I was a Police Detective. I’ve been in the high-stakes environments where “stress” isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a safety risk. I’ve faced a gunman, been shot at six times, and eventually, I faced a challenge even harder than the frontline: PTSD and burnout.

I learned the hard way that resilience isn’t about “toughing it out.” It’s about Capacity, Need, and Want. Now, I help HR leaders like you turn workplace stress from a crisis into a conversation.


The Journey: How We Fix This Together

I don’t just “show up and speak.” We’re building a bridge from burnout back to high performance. Here is how we do it:

1. The Setup Call (Checking the Pulse) Before I step on stage, we talk. I want to know the “real” version of what’s happening in your office. No fluff, just the facts.


2. The Initial Staff Assessment I don’t guess what your team needs; I ask them. We identify the specific “Mammoths” (as I call them in The Caveman Principles) that are causing the most stress in your unique environment.


3. The Keynote: You have a choice of 3

a. The Caveman Principles. Your managers are trying to lead 21st-century teams using 10,000-year-old brains. When stress hits, the “Caveman” takes over—leading to conflict, poor communication, and defensive cultures.

This is my most popular talk for a reason: it makes complex neuroscience hilariously simple. I explain why our brains treat a “passive-aggressive email” the same way they treat a “Sabre-toothed Tiger.”

  • The Caveman Mindset: Why we react the way we do under pressure (and how to spot it in a team).
  • Managing the Tribe: I give managers a skill to recognise the correct language to discuss stress without it feeling “weak” or “fluffy.”
  • Personal Achievement: We explore how to move from “survival mode” to “achievement mode,” helping employees set and smash personal goals that align with your company’s mission.

b. Capacity, Want, Need. You see brilliant employees drowning in their “To-Do” lists, unable to prioritise because everything feels like a priority. This is where burnout starts—when the “Need” far outweighs the “Capacity.”

In this session, I pull back the curtain on how I managed high-pressure police investigations without losing my mind. I teach your team my signature Capacity, Want, Need framework.

  • The Reality Check: We map out their current “Capacity” (it’s a finite bucket, not a bottomless pit).
  • The Filter: We learn how to ruthlessly separate what they Want to do from what the business actually Needs them to do.
  • The Result: Your staff stops “busy-bragging” and starts delivering. They leave with a practical tool to self-regulate their stress levels before they reach a breaking point.

c. The S.L.A.P. Technique. The HR Pain Point: You’re seeing the “walking wounded”—employees who should be at their desks but are mentally checked out or teetering on the edge of a breakdown. You need a way to give them immediate, practical relief that goes beyond “take a deep breath.”

This is my “Frontline Resilience” session. I share the raw, high-stakes stories from my time as a Detective—including the moment I faced a gunman—to illustrate how the brain handles extreme pressure. I then hand your managers or team the S.L.A.P. Framework, a tactical tool they can use the second they feel the walls closing in:

  • Stability: How to ground yourself when the “Police Siren” in your head won’t stop.
  • Listen: Tuning into what your body and mind are actually telling you (before it’s too late).
  • Adjust: Small, professional pivots that prevent a total collapse in productivity.
  • Patient: The “long game” of resilience—understanding that recovery isn’t a race.
  • The Result: Your team moves from “Panic” to “Process.” They leave with a memorable, four-step acronym that acts as a mental fire extinguisher for workplace stress.

4. The ROI Follow-up Survey. You have a budget to justify. I provide a follow-up survey to monitor the impact, giving you the data you need to prove that your team isn’t just “feeling better”—they’re performing better.


5. 12 Months of Support (The “No-Fade” Factor) Most talks are forgotten by lunch. Mine isn’t. Every attendee gets 12 months of access to my e-learning course. It’s bite-sized, “Caveman-style” wisdom that keeps the resilience conversation alive for a full year.

Ready to give your team the tools I wish I’d had?

Why Carl?

  • 19 Years of Frontline Experience: I’ve seen the “pointy end” of stress.
  • National Bravery Award Recipient: I know how to lead when things get loud.
  • Author of The Caveman Principles: I turn complex psychology into simple, fun, and actionable steps.
  • HR’s Secret Weapon: I speak the language of people management and ROI.

Testimonials.

Ebony Murray

Lecturer in Psychological Sciences & Academic Course Leader of Psychology (BSc) at University of Gloucestershire

We held our Psychology in the Community event last week, in collaboration with the University of Gloucestershire (where I am a Lecturer in Psychological Sciences) and the British Psychological Society (of which I am a West Midlands Branch committee member). Psychology in the Community is a free-to-attend, public event. Carl gave a powerful and engaging talk about trauma and PTSD, reflecting on his personal experiences and keeping us hooked to the end! His use of props helped us visualise his core message, as did the very catchy SLAP acronym. We thank Carl for taking the time to support our event and sharing his story.

Emma Greenslade

Wildly Successful Mama

Carl gave a great talk to our club, his clever use of props showed how one never fully recovers from PTSD but how to live with it so one doesn’t get over-burdened with negative emotions. He has an amazing story to tell which keeps the listener gripped right until the end.

John McGhee

Retired business technology manager

Carl is a very versatile and enthusiastic speaker who makes an instant impact. He knows how to captivate an audience and when the topic is sensitive he can quickly lighten the mood with amusing appropriate comments… His speeches and talks are often inspiring and always thought provoking, making audiences feel that they have benefitted from the experience. I recommend Carl with great enthusiasm.

Dawn Evans

Dawn

Ajuda Academy

Carl’s knowledge and passion around the subject of PTSD is second to none, and his expert manner of presenting his SLAP talk left our audience feeling awe-inspired, emotional and motivated to make a change in their community around the attitudes towards PTSD sufferers.  We received fantastic feedback from our audience regarding Carl’s talk and can’t wait to work with him again soon. If you are looking for an expert on PTSD and personal mental health experience, the whole team at Ajuda Events would highly recommend Carl.

Brian Murphy

Volunteer Co-ordinator at Police Care UK

Carl gave an online presentation using a bowl and ping-pong balls to visualise trauma. Very impactive and got the message across well. Definitely worth listening to his story.

David Dewalt

Planning Manager at Swindon Borough Council

I have had the pleasure to witness several speeches from Carl. Carl’s public speaking skills are exceptional. His speeches are engaging, entertaining and persuasive. I would commend Carl as a highly accomplished public speaker

HMCTS

Delegate

Having attended the conference yesterday I just wanted to say thank you for asking Carl to talk to the group. When we are promoted into management roles there is no training given on how to deal with supporting staff and colleagues that go through crisis at work other than the usually signposting of services.

3 years ago I had to deal with a member of staff that experienced a breakdown at work.  I took them out of the building, sat with them over a coffee, listed and formulated a plan of support and action with them. I had no idea if I was doing the right thing but I knew that I could not leave them or send them home in distress.

Not all colleagues would feel comfortable or confident dealing with situations like this, I certainly was not. Knowledge of the SLAP someone technique would have really helped me, and I feel it would be beneficial to raise wider awareness of it.

Yola O’Hara

Visually Explained

In October 2020, I watched him deliver a key note speech about recognising and understanding PTSD signs at work. Whoever listened to this speech will be able to confirm that it was breath-taking….Carl also cleverly incorporated visual element to his speech, allowing the audience to fully ‘get it’. The final message was also very clearly stated: ‘do not shake overloaded psyche’. Recommending Carl for future key note speeches goes without saying. PS. I saw Carl speak both in real and virtual environment.

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